Sunday, March 28, 2010

You know the sum....but can you solve a differences problem?


How to solve a differences problem? May I propose the following solutions:
1. Add up the short for to make it whole again. - Patching up.
2. Subtract the differences from the whole and do nothing. - Maintaining status-quo.
3. Write-off the differences and make it a new whole. - Moving on.

In any human relationship, when you encounter differences in view points, opinions, ways of working,  just like doing a maths problem, at different stages of the relationship, there is a need to evaluate what's the best approach to solve the problem. In practice, it's not so easy, of cause. 

Differences are not necessary a bad thing if you learn how to handle it well...It requires a mature mentality and controlled emotion and it's better if you start thinking about the solutions while your mind is still working :)

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